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This HaBO is from Krishnaa, who is trying to find a romance she read a few years ago:
I am looking for a Regency romance I read in 2013. I don’t remember the author or publisher or any of the character names, but remember almost all of the plot. I remember that the book had a lot of improbable plot points, was high on crazysauce, and vaguely slut-shamey, but was deliciously well-written. Seriously, the UST had me watering at the mouth!
The hero is a Duke (or Earl or Marquess or Somesuch), but impoverished. He has an arranged marriage with a daughter (our heroine) of a rich man. Our hero is in love with the heroine, but she is scared of him because he is about ten years older. Before their wedding night, however, the hero is led to believe that the heroine cheated on him with his younger brother. The hero becomes very angry and vows never to speak to the heroine again. He installs her in his country seat and goes off to London with her dowry. Meanwhile, the younger brother is shipped off to the military.
Five years later, the hero is a very rich man in London, thanks to the dowry and some wise investments and hard work on his part. He wants to divorce his wife and marry his mistress. But the wife comes to his townhouse and pleads with him to give their marriage a second chance, to look respectable in the eyes of the society. She wants her younger sister to have a “proper season” and make a love match.
So…you can guess what happens next. Lots of “ton” related scenes and standard Regency romance fare – balls, opera, carriage ride, morning calls, etc. The romance between the younger sister and her suitor becomes a convenient background/parallel for the lead pair’s arc. The hero breaks up with his mistress and finally consummates his marriage with the heroine. When he sees the blood stained sheets, he realizes that she had never cheated on him. After some mild grovelling on his part, they declare their love for each other.
Then the jealous mistress shows up and tries to shoot the wife. Somehow, our heroine escapes. The hero and heroine have yet another misunderstanding (again involving the younger brother). The heroine becomes pregnant but loses the baby because she goes riding in the rain and slips and falls. She recovers, the hero grovels, and then grovels some more. Then a year later, they finally have a HEA with the arrival of their first child. BUT! The mistress shows up at the child’s baptism or something and tries to kill everybody. Again, she is foiled and the hero shoots her dead.
This book was a weird mix of slut-shaming and sex positivity. The hero’s mother takes a much younger lover when her husband dies and is shunned by high society for this, but the author portrayed her in a positive light. But, the hero’s mistress is also a widow and was depicted as a crazy slut.
I want to find this book because I think it may have been a part of a series. I want to read what happens to the hero’s younger brother.
How long is this dang book? That’s a lot of things happening.

Ooh I know this one: Passions of a Wicked Earl by Lorraine Heath. It’s part of her London’s Greatest Lovers series, and the younger brother eventually gets his own story too.
In case you’d like another wedding day misconception, there’s also Sally MacKenzie’s “Loving Lord Ash”.
Another note: I totally love Lorraine Heath. I have almost all her books and are probably the most re-read.
I love Lorraine Heath’s books!
I’ve always preferred her American set ones for some reason, but I am off to find this *immediately* thank you all very much for bringing it to my attention.
AND it’s $1.99 for Kindle today!
I didn’t know this one but own the series! Now I’ve got to read it.
I loved this book! And all of Lorraine’s books really 😀
This sounds terribly awesome! I just checked it out based on the description from the HABO!
“I remember that the book had a lot of improbable plot points, was high on crazysauce, and vaguely slut-shamey, but was deliciously well-written. ”
Usually, I would not consider it possible for a book to have improbable plot points, crazysauce, be slut-shamey, and be considered well-written because to me those would all be mutually exclusive characteristics.
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I really like many of Lorraine Heath’s American novels but had wasn’t as interested in her British novels. But, so far I’ve only read one or two.
Sorry, what is UST?
@Regina: Sorry! We use so many acronyms around here. UST is unresolved sexual tension.
Thank you! I looked for an abbreviations FAQ but didn’t see one.
So I got it from the library and enjoyed it thoroughly! Very well written, and every bit as crazy as the HaBO describes.
It’s not *exactly* slut shamey in as much as all the women tend to enjoy their sexuality lots and freely. But the mistress is cold and manipulative and overly concerned with trinkets, and always negatively contrasted with the heroine so that’s a bummer, plus there’s a sex without love is meaningless and empty theme, but these things in no way irritate me enough to seriously detract from the book. Ymmv.
I have made up a story in my head wherein the mistress and the Scotland Yard dude with a tragic past who’s only ever a blip in this story have a torrid affair, like I’ve decided maybe they broke each other’s hearts in the past but definitely they fall wildly in love and he helps her get away with what turns out to be entirely justified murder.
I’m just saying, it could be, and it helps me if I choose to believe it. I might have actually read it, I don’t know. Lorraine Heath could totally pull it off. Or Lisa Kleypas.
Hi guys! Thank you for helping me find this book. It is indeed Passions of a Wicked Earl.
And I found that this book has not one but two sequels!! (based on the hero’s two brothers).
@kkw I would love to read THAT book! It doesn’t even have to be a book – just a oneshot fanfic.