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134. M/M Romance and Recommendations: An Interview with Joyfully Jay

Jane and Sarah have a long chat with Jay from Joyfully Jay. She answers curious questions about male/male romance, such as, is all m/m erotic? (Spoiler alert: nope!) We talk author and book recommendations, gaynesia, audiobooks, and the m/m romance community as well.

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  1. Heather S says:

    How did the “Faith, Love, and Devotion” series by Tere Michaels not get a mention?! To say I adore Matt and Evan would be an understatement. *sigh* And how about the big publishing of “Captive Prince”? That’s a big deal – we may even get a copy or two in at my work to have on the shelf, which would be AMAZING.

    Thanks for the m/m romance coverage! There’s not nearly enough talk about it.

  2. Des Livres says:

    Renae Kaye’s most recent, Shawn’s Law is a jewell of the genre.

    One general difference I have noticed with m/m is that the heroes often have really rough backgrounds. for instance ex-cons (or still in prison) sometimes guilty, sometimes not..in one, the guy had backed over a toddler and killed it while drunk. In another he served time for killing the other hero’s brother. In another he was a double murderer in witness protection after a gaining immunity from prosecution. Quite often at least one of them has been thrown out of their homes by their parents because they are gay and may have lived/are living on the street. Ally Blue wrote one where they were both street people.

    Another difference is there is often a slightly more leery attitude to family. Evil Parent/s are not uncommon, if not other evil relatives.

    I’m fine with it all, obviously, so long as the book isn’t set in (eloquent shudder) country Australia. We all have our hard limits.

  3. marjorie says:

    I LOVE that Love Lessons cover. I realize I’m pretty much a lone voice howling in the wilderness here and NO ONE ELSE CARES but I wish more romances had high-design, innovative covers informed by what else is going on in the design world.

  4. Stacey says:

    So timely! I just picked up The Magpie Lord last night – almost completely at random – and I’m head over heels with it! I have been in a huge book slump/book hangover for weeks (caused by a glut of historical romance) and this is a breath of fresh air.
    Haven’t listened to the podcast yet – that’s my Monday morning treat while I churn through the Excel spreadsheet hell of weekly reports – but I’m really looking forward to this one.

  5. Heather S says:

    I actually sat and listened to the whole podcast (I usually read the transcripts) because I couldn’t wait for the transcript. I may also have bought a couple of book. Just a couple.

  6. Des Livres says:

    Just finished trust the focus. it is probably a nice book to start on. Two very nice just-graduated 22 year olds.

    SPOILER

    no one is in or has been in prison!

  7. Well. Now I need a book calendar.

  8. Judy W. says:

    Hey Captive Prince was my M/M starter kit. It focused less on the relationship, which was an awesome one, but on politics ( who knew politics could be so exciting?). I felt this really stood out as different in the genre. Go Prince! Also, Bone Rider (heh heh) by J. Fally which is super great. I’ve reread it several times. And don’t forget the In the Company of Shadows series starting with Evenfall.

  9. Jay says:

    Thanks everyone for stopping by and listening to the podcast! And thanks to Jane and Sarah for inviting me to come talk about one of my favorite topics, GBLT romance. I could go on for hours, lol!

    @HeatherS – you are so right about Faith, Love and Devotion! I shouldn’t have forgotten it! That series is like a gateway drug to m/m romance and I know lots of folks got their start in the genre there. And yes, I am SO excited for Captive Prince. It is wonderful to see it getting picked up by a big publisher, and they are going to be releasing both the first two, plus a new one. I can’t wait!

    @Des Livres – yes, I love Renae Kaye! I have gobbled up everything she has written. I think Blinding Light is my favorite of hers, but totally adored Shawn’s Law and all the others as well. And interesting about the dark backgrounds. I hadn’t noticed that, and obviously there are many exceptions, but I do think that it is a common theme. And yes, Trust the Focus is fabulous. I slobber all over it in the podcast! A great start to the genre, I agree.

    @Majorie – OMG, I hear you. ADORE that Love Lessons cover and Fever Pitch is also gorgeous. They make such a lovely set. And seriously, covers are one of my biggest rants! I do a favorite cover post on the blog every month for just that reason. A good cover can sell a book in one minute (note the gorgeous cover for Girl Next Door that made me want to read it NOW), and sadly a bad cover can keep me from picking one up. I wish more publishers/authors put effort into what the book looks like outside. It can make such a difference.

    @Stacey – Yes, Magpie Lord was such a wonderful series. So fascinating and original and I just adored every bit of it. I am a HUGE KJ Charles fan and have loved all her stuff, but that series is one in a million.

    @HeatherS – yeah! I love to be a book pimp! Hope you enjoy!

    @Theo Librarian – my calendar is kind of scary but I would be lost without it. Color coded insanity!

    @Judy W – I didn’t read Captive Prince the first time around but I have heard nothing but great things. The rerelease is already loaded on my kindle so I can’t wait to read it. And yes, I loved Bone Rider as well. So much fun and really creative. I haven’t read Company of Shadows so I will check it out!

  10. Coco says:

    Three things:

    1) My library has a lot of these titles. Just to satisfy my curiosity I filtered for gay and lesbian under romance and found only three titles. So the rest of these, and I know many, many more, are available but not listed as gay or lesbian.

    I suppose, depending on how you look at it, that that’s a good thing. For my part, I would prefer that they not be mixed in. I don’t read m/m. I’m a girl. I like boys. I like to read about girls who like boys (and yes, sometimes more than one at a time).

    I imagine, that it’s much harder to censor them when they’re mixed in. I could be wrong, its just a thought. Anyway, for those of you looking, it might be easier if you knew precisely what you were looking for (author or title name). Of course, it could just be my library that’s set up that way.

    2) I loved what Jay said at minute 36, she speaks very fast so I’m not going to try to repeat it, but basically that as a review blogger SHE reviews for Her Readers.

    After the last few days, with Jane’s reveal, and the comments and weirdness that ensued from that, I feel like some people have lost sight of the fact that a blog is the property of the person whose blog it is. That person may choose to write from whatever point of view they have. And that blog is reflective of that point of view but not, necessarily, everything and every facet of that person.

    Jay could just as easily have decided to blog about only books that she really enjoyed and be more of an advocate for those authors. While that may not have been as beneficial to her Readers, it certainly would not have been wrong.

    Also, the fact that she chooses to review m/m books has very little to do with who she is as a person and does not exclude her from other activities.

    Anyway, I thought that was interesting.

  11. Coco says:

    Aaaand I swiped over my submit button accidentally.

    I wonder what the backlash would be if Jay suddenly came out with the fact that she was a cookbook writer?

    And yes, I get that it’s not that simple.

    3) I also hear what I’m reading as my voice reading to me. One of my girlfriends growing up said that she saw what she was reading like it was a movie. I tried that once, it seemed very much like a comic book to me and I could not cope. Don’t hate me! I don’t go for comic books.

  12. Jay says:

    Thanks so much Coco! That is exciting to hear that your library has a lot of m/m and GBLT romance. I think you are right, that if you know what you are looking for, it maybe easier to search for specific titles than for the genre in general, depending on how they are sorted.

    And sorry I was talking to fast, lol. I am so bad about that! But I appreciate your thoughts and support! And glad you enjoyed the podcast!

  13. Coco says:

    @ Jay

    Not too fast, just very fast.

    I also speak very fast but I don’t hear quite so speedily.

  14. Jay says:

    LOL, thanks!

  15. Des Livres says:

    I’ve just been reading the KA Mitchell. I enjoyed it immensely. Thank you for recommending it.

  16. Jay says:

    @des livres – Oh yay! I adore KA Mitchell’s writing so much and Collision Course is my all time favorite. Sexy, snarky, fun, but also some real intensity. I loved Aaron and Joey so much!

  17. Des Livres says:

    I’m going to glom her now.

  18. Meg says:

    So glad to see Jordan Hawk and Widdershins on this list. Whyborne and Griffin are two of my favorite fictional characters, period (mind, I do have quite a list of favorite fictional characters…).

    Looking forward to Hoarfrost, W&G #6 (6!) in April.

    When will the transcript be available? I’d rather read than listen.

  19. Jay says:

    @Meg – OMG yes, love Whyborne and Griffin! I am making my way through the series right now and I could kick myself for waiting so long to read them. I am actually listening to Stormhaven on audio right now. The worst part is I have a copy of Hoarfrost waiting for me and burning a hole in my kindle, but I need to get the other books read first. It’s making me crazy!

  20. Meg says:

    Okay, Jay, that’s just cruel. I’d trade Kindles with you for that one…

  21. Jay says:

    @Meg, Yes, that is a lovely perk of reviewing, I get a lot of books early. Then again sometimes it kills me b/c we don’t review until release (I like people to be able to get the book when they read a review that interests them) so I typically wait until close to release to read it. I have several books on my Kindle right now I am DYING to read. Heidi Cullinan’s Lonely Hearts is practically making my Kindle explode and it isn’t out until August! I am pretty sure I won’t be able to wait that long…

  22. Mary Grzesik says:

    Thank you ladies. I enjoyed this soooo much! Book enthusiasm feeds my soul. Listening to you talk about books adds a whole other level. 🙂

  23. Evaine says:

    Hey Marjorie! You’re not alone! I have SO many opinions on covers. There are books I just dismiss because the covers are, in my opinion, so awful. Shallow of me, maybe, but it’s what I do. But you know, whenever I see the cover to Heidi Cullinan’s Fever Pitch, the one that’s nominated for a RITA, and is the second in the Love Lessons series, it just makes me smile. Every time. Those are good covers.

    So many of the books Jay has mentioned are faves of mine. 🙂 That’s why I added her blog into my newsreader feed today. All that’s missing for me is the M/M fantasy sub-genre. I love me a good M/M fantasy. 🙂 Oh, and I love that Jay mentioned Amy Lane’s Clear Water, which I think never gets enough love.

  24. Linnet says:

    Oh, Jay! I’m so, so happy about this podcast. I usually wait for the transcript, but this time I just jumped in and listened. Having spent more than a decade reading fanfiction (much of it slash), I was so excited to hear about interesting published books to read.

    I’ve been disappointed by published m/m in the past. I’ve had some bad experiences where every other line was one of the heroe’s inner dialogue, always starting with “Hell,”. So I stuck to my old fanfic favourites, just to get my fix of hot sex and romance. But now I think I’m brave enough to try again!

    Love Captive Prince, by the way. It’s an excellent gateway to published m/m for people in fandom.

  25. Heather S says:

    Like many m/m readers, I started off reading slash fanfic. I am still an avid reader of it, but I love that m/m has grown so much since ereaders came about. No, the books aren’t cheap, but that’s why we have samples – to weed the garbage out and find the good stuff. ^_^ Personally, I’m looking forward to the day when m/m is mass market paperbacks, on the regular romance shelves. The real triumph? When Harlequin starts publishing m/m categories every month, like Presents and Blaze, etc. I’d buy the heck out of that! It’s gonna happen eventually.

  26. Margarita says:

    Terrific podcast!
    Thank you for the many recs. I loved Promises! I thought another book that just HAD to be mentioned is the wonderful Hot Head by Damon Suede. The feels!
    @Marjorie @Evaine: I’m a cover hummm purist too! Whenever I see YET another man titty I feel like growling, honestly.

  27. Jay says:

    @Mary – Hi Mary! So glad you stopped by! And yes, I totally agree!

    @Evaine – Yes, I totally adore those covers. Seriously I feel like I found kindred spirits here b/c covers are such a pet peeve of mine. I adore that Fever Pitch cover completely. And I so appreciate you stopping by the blog. TBH, I am not much of a fantasy reader personally beyond master/slave kind of stuff, but we do review quite a bit if you are looking for m/m recommendations. Here is a quick link to all our fantasy reviews in one place: http://joyfullyjay.com/category/fantasy/ Also, I know lots of folks are big fans of Megan Derr’s fantasy stories if you are looking for ideas.

    @Linnet – Oh, that makes me so happy to hear! I think m/m romance has come a very long way from its early days and there are so many incredibly wonderful books out now. I could go on forever about them! Definitely stop by the blog and poke around (If you go to Reviews in the red bar you can sort by genre, rating, etc). Or shoot me an email if you are looking for something specific and want some suggestions. I am always happy to be a book pimp!

    @Heather S – Yes, I agree. I would love for m/m romance (and GBLT romance in general) to be more readily available in libraries especially. It is hard to have to buy so many of your books from the start. And yes, samples and reviews are a good way to figure out which books you want to spend money on.

    @Margarita – Yes, I agree totally. Love Hot Head. One of my favorite “out for you” stories. So sexy, and omg a man in a kilt. Swoons. I have read it multiple times and recently listened to and reviewed the audiobook and that was fabulous as well. Seriously, Charlie David could read the phone book, but boy does he do a great job narrating those sexy scenes!

  28. Dani says:

    I cannot wait to listen to this podcast! As a long time reader of m/m, I love it when it gets the attention it deserves and Jay is the perfect person to refer to. She knows her stuff! There are some books on this list that I have been putting off but I shall buy them ASAP. Also, anyone who can make is to GRL should do so.

    I would add any book by TJ Klune to this list. All of his books are original and full of heart…they really stick with a reader.

  29. SB Sarah says:

    @Linnet:

    I’m really glad you like the transcripts – it helps to know who is listening and who is reading! The transcript for this one should be up soon, and I’m really happy to hear how much you enjoyed this episode! Jay is a terrific and fun person to talk to about m/m romance, and it sounds like she was fun to listen to, too! Yay!

  30. Jay says:

    @Dani, Thanks so much for the compliments. And yes, totally agree that if you are a m/m romance fan, GRL is an unbelievable experience. I am on a euphoric high for the entire time! And yep, TJ Klune is great. Lots of humor and heart to his stories.

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  32. Nialla says:

    As a librarian in a small town, I don’t have much m/m in print on the shelves, but that’s mainly because readers tend to want eBooks. Some have figured out I’m “in the know” and will talk to me about it.

    We’re in a digital consortium (over 50 libraries are members), so that allows us to have access to quite a few m/m titles, but finding them is a bit tricky. We use OverDrive, and if you look for “The Magpie Lord” the subjects are simply: Fantasy, Fiction, Romance. It’s only in the description of the book that you’d clue in to it being m/m, with the “warning” at the end stating it’s m/m. Do a keyword search for “m/m” and you’ll get hits, though probably not everything that’s available because it’s looking for it the “warning” section and not all use that term.

    However, if you search for it in the library’s catalog, it gets the same subjects, but there’s also a general note in the record that simply says “Gay.” Unfortunately, a keyword search of “gay” gives you a ton of results of anything with the word in it, but the titles do show up. You just have to do a lot of scrolling to get to the OverDrive results. A search for “m/m” gives zero results, and I’m not sure why the system doesn’t see the term.

    Each system is a bit different, and you have to figure out how they “think” in order to search for m/m if you don’t have a specific title or author in mind. You can often gain some insight by finding a title and seeing how it’s been cataloged, then you’ll have an idea what terms to use to search.

  33. Coco says:

    @Nialla

    I wonder, do you know, are all OverDrive libraries the same? I mean, not the same content but the same set up?

    As I said earlier, in my digital public library, under gay and lesbian romance, there are only three titles but there are many, many more scattered throughout if you just search for romance, or by author or title.

    I wonder if that’s something that OverDrive does for some reason?

  34. Nialla says:

    @Coco

    I’m not sure if it’s OverDrive, how they do their MARC records (MAchine Readable Cataloging), or if it’s just what they get from the publisher. I do know they have at least two MARC versions, because our system used a version that was more detailed, then switched to a form that had less detail, but was free.

    That’s what shows up in our OverDrive site, but our consortium has someone who uses the OverDrive info as the base and adds some extras. Our library’s catalog automatically imports the files when they become available.

    I looked up The Magpie Lord in WorldCat out of curiosity, and there it gets the following subjects for the print version: (1) Aristocracy (Social class) — England — Fiction, (2) Magicians — Fiction, (3) Gay men — Fiction.

    In theory, I could go in and add more subjects to information that’s imported, but it would be impossible for me to keep doing that due to the sheer number added each week.

    A note for anyone looking for m/m fiction at their library, most digital systems allow you to recommend titles, but it has to be something that the vendor has access to, and not all books are available. It varies by publisher, and in some cases the cost for a single book is highway robbery. Doesn’t hurt to ask though.

  35. Jay says:

    @Nialla – Thank you for the search tips! It sounds like there may be much more available than most people know, the trick is figuring out how to run the search. My library is part of an overdrive consortium as well, so when I get a moment I’ll try poking around in there and see what they have available. I appreciate the advice!

  36. Nialla says:

    @Jay

    I look at the digital titles at least once a week to see the new additions, since there’s over 50 libraries in our consortium. I can often tell by cover art or author that it’s m/m, but when I did my search, I found a few that I missed previously.

    Oh, and a bit that’s hysterically funny to me is that if you’re not logged in, you see all the cover art. Once you log in, cover art for some adult titles is replaced with a gray box and black text. That seems very backwards to me, and I’m not sure if all OverDrive systems do that, but ours does.

  37. Coco says:

    @Nialla

    Additional Titles to Recommend!

    I swear, this is my favorite part of the library. And my library actually purchases a lot of my recommendations, at least half. Which is, I think, pretty good considering I’m a single person requesting rather lot of books (152 at last count!). But I also go back and look when they purchase one and have found that most of the books I’ve recommended have long waits on them, so I don’t feel too bad.

    Apparently, I have to really good taste.

    I realize they’re probably not purchasing these books on my say so alone, but I like to think that maybe they are.

  38. marjorie says:

    Oh, forgot to say: Jay, you were right about the Greek allusion! Leith is a Scottish name that literally means river (and it’s the river that goes thru Edinburgh) and Lethe is the river in Hades in Greek mythology that causes amnesia when you drink from it. When dead souls got to the underworld they were forced to drink from it so they’d forget their past lives as human beings.

    OH THE WACKY WORDPLAY!

  39. SusanS says:

    Chiming in late to the discussion, but I don’t know how you can have a discussion about M/M romance and not include Josh Lanyon, especially his Adrien English series. He is extremely prolific and rarely disappoints.

  40. Danie says:

    What a fun way to start my Monday! Was away last week and missed the initial post; really enjoying this transcript. I started reading m/m romance last October and I’ve since read that almost exclusively. I have read everything by KA Mitchell and loved it all. Also enjoyed JL Merrow and Heidi Cullinan. No Souvenirs by KA Mitchell is one of my all tame favourite romances of any genre.

    I didn’t know about the Joyfully Jay website but will be a regular reader now.

    Thanks for this!

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