Romantic Times: The Documentary

Anyone want to check out a documentary film premiere at the Cut Film Festival in San Diego next spring? Novice filmmakers Cindi Finneran and Charley Reeves are premiering their documentary Reading, Riting, and Romance: Taming the Alpha Male, which examines the Romantic Times convention through footage of the 2007 convention and interviews with the attendees.

The documentary came about when Sharon Sala, who works with Finneran, suggested they “team up and document [the] convention,” and off they went.

There’s a 4 minute teaser video on YouTube featuring Kathryn Falk, conference attendees, and several of the ‘07 Mr. Romance contestants:

I’m really curious about this documentary, and I’m of three minds about what the trailer seems to indicate.

 

First, I don’t think you can properly appreciate or even understand the experience of the RT convention unless you’ve seen one and been there for the whole of it (which means my opinion means diddly since I had to leave early to go feast on the matzo this year). So to try to reveal the convention to outsiders, both to the convention itself and the genre on the whole, might backfire and invite more snide and demeaning comments about how silly, sexist, and sophomoric romance and its fans are, don’t you know.

I honestly don’t know that it’s possible to capture on film what makes RT the giant cluster of ?!! that it is, because underneath the costumes and the feathers and the contestants and the male beauty pageant and the balls and the matched sets of luggage that hold six foot chiffon wings are a dedicated posse of readers and fans of romance who live for that weekend. They save up all year and work for months on their costumes. It is impossible to overstate how much happiness the attendees squeeze out of the RT convention. They love it like I love donuts. I don’t know if it’s truly possible to capture that happiness beneath the costumes and festivities, which from the outside looking in miss ‘joyous and fun’ and might land squarely on ‘just plain weird.’ RT is a lot of, ‘You had to be there.’

Second, the degree to which the interviewees discuss Alpha Males in the trailer makes me pause. Phrases like, “We bring these women into the fantasy” and “We’re here for the ladies” give me the shudders because nothing says “silly empty-headed women” like the phrase “bringing into fantasy.” I didn’t think RT was so much about the Alpha Male, or the ever-present hero that embraces that archetype with his steely gaze and rock-hard abs. It’s certainly true that alpha maledom is a known element in the genre, but is that the avenue through which to introduce folks who aren’t familiar with romance to the genre? It’s not all Alpha males and wings, folks. Neither is it all women who “live in their books.”

Thirdly, I have to wonder about the way in which the RT Convention is being held up as indicative and representative of “Romance.” Given the “Romance is….” headers to each segment of the teaser, and the fact that the documentary revolves around the convention, the fans, and the authors, it would be easy for anyone who views the film to then presume that all romance readers are like those featured in the documentary. And if there’s anything I’ve learned in the three-plus years of running SBTB, it’s the simple fact that sometimes the only thing romance fans have in common is the romance novel itself.

My questions and reservations aside, I’d love to see this film, simply because RT and its surrounding Fiesta of Whoa are no doubt a ripe subject matter for documentary-style exploration. If you get a chance to go see the premiere, let me know how it is.

ETA – Thanks to Jane, here’s a link to the Daily Oklahoman coverage:

 

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  1. Jane says:

    These people spend a year interviewing and the cover models is the thing that makes the most impact.  The entirety of the genre is encapsulated in one convention? 

    Anyone who participated in this documentary should have watched Trekkies prior to agreeing to be filmed.  They even referenced Trekkies in the video. 

    I loved the line that the one author said that something like these women ONLY live in these books and the cover models bring their fantasies to life. 

    “It’s fantasy.  How you want your life to be.”

    “Alpha men epitomizes the real man.”

    “I write erotic.  Some of the stuff I write, I haven’t done.”  Giggle giggle.

    Oh beejesus.  I give up.

  2. Second, the degree to which the interviewees discuss Alpha Males in the trailer makes me pause.

    I’m guessing they concentrated on that because someone figured featuring the sexy guys would mean more interest & sales.

    “I write erotic.  Some of the stuff I write, I haven’t done.” Giggle giggle.

    Oh beejesus.  I give up.

    Eh, that one at least might have been a decent discussion taken out of context… like talking about those one or two odd people who always have to ask whether you’ve done the things you write about.

  3. Oy, messed up my quoting code in that comment, so please forgive the double-post as I correct it:

    Second, the degree to which the interviewees discuss Alpha Males in the trailer makes me pause.

    I’m guessing they concentrated on that because someone figured featuring the sexy guys would mean more interest & sales.

    “I write erotic.  Some of the stuff I write, I haven’t done.” Giggle giggle.

    Oh beejesus.  I give up.

    Eh, that one at least might have been a decent discussion taken out of context… like talking about those one or two odd people who always have to ask whether you’ve done the things you write about.

  4. ev says:

    Let me start this with- Yes, I have dressed up like a Klingon on more than one occassion.

    The clip started out with good intentions, I think. But to concentrate on the guys as the only thing to come out of the convention is definately misleading.

    On the other hand, it is, from my point of view, so nice to see the tables being turned on the men after all the years of women getting the same treatment. Although, the guys always get treated better than women in these types of things do (I hate beauty pagents).

    One of these days I would love to be able to attend RT. and I will get there.

    I don’t read romance because my life sucks and I have to escape. I read it because i like the stories. I like an HEA. What’s so wrong with that? Why do the only books that seem to have any critical merit have to have a crappy someone died ending? No wonder our society is always so damed depressed all the time.

    Maybe reading romance should be mandatory in college? Before you can graduate you have to read and review a book with a happy ending? Think that would weed out the idiots?

  5. Julie Leto says:

    Well, I can’t judge until I’ve seen more than just the trailer, but it seems to me that if the documentarians wanted to really make a film about the entire romance INDUSTRY, then they should have done more than just attend one RT convention.  That is not representative of the industry at all…it’s only partially representative of the FAN industry.  To balance that, they should also have filmed a Celebrate Romance or the Lori Foster get-together.  If they want the whole industry, they should also have gone to an RWA conference and maybe attended a few local RWA chapter meetings/booksignings/fan events.

    That said, I’m curious enough to watch it if I get a chance.

  6. Kristie(J) says:

    The thing is, the RT convention is only a tiny, small glimpse into the whole package.  I’ve been to one and while I had a great time, it really isn’t for me.  I hope the documentary goes much further than women gushing over cover models. 
    I hope they plan on delving deeper into the writers and the readers so it’s clear we are down to earth, intelligent people who aren’t waiting around for some handsome alpha male to come and sweep us off our feet.  I’d love to see them focus on some of the good works and charity work that authors and readers do.  And I wonder if the producers plan on reading any romance books so they can see the incredible writing and story lines in may of today’s books.

  7. Ciara says:

    Did they talk about the whole Stalker Cover Model fiasco? I really wish they’d gone to RWA too.

  8. closetcrafter says:

    I think it’s great that they are making this documentary and I didn’t think that the clip was that hellacious.

    I actually think RT fans are lucky it was filmed in ‘07 and not in ‘08!  Did everyone forget so quickly the Mr. Romance contestant that had a breakdown?  How would that have looked in a documentary?

    Also the clip of the fim-makers were clearly positive about their experience filming and enjoyed the fans.  They want to screen it at the next RT, that should be an indication of how positive it is.

    I think once you are a serious fan of anything, there is going to be a group of people who want to make fun. Its just a shame that its about a topic that society sees as “Literature Lite”.

    If anything, I’d like to see a corresponding video about men preparing for a fantasy football draft, like my husband, that would be great entertainment. And let’s talk about rabid fans. So far, I don’t think anyone has ever been killed at an RT, but I don’t think the same can be said for soccer in Great Britain.

    These hobbies people have are all distractions from real life. I say FU to anyone who thinks that RT is any different (better or worse) from the Society for Creative Anachronism events, scrapbooking weekends,  antique/garage sale trollers, or football fan appreciation days at the local stadium.  Its all about your personal interests and where your disposable income is going to go.

  9. Liz L says:

    The clip was really bizarre for me because I am so removed from RT- it was barely a blip on my radar until everyone started reporting possible bad behavior this year and then a wonderful argument ensued over the whole convention.
    I’ll just holler out what everyone else has stated- RT is RT and for some romance readers it has absolutely nothing to do with our experience of the genre.  I would argue that romance is not alpha males (and it certainly isn’t cover models!).  As for romance-as-fantasy, the constant appearance of the fantasy/escapism argument in relationship to genre fiction is one of the most fascinating things (imo) about people’s response to these types of texts.  To accept and reproduce the idea uncritically is one of the silliest things (again imo) you can do if you’re really interested in what makes romance (or sci-fi, or mystery) tick.

  10. Flo says:

    I think that the clip epitomizes pretty much every single Hollywood view of any type of subculture festival.  If you took them to a renn faire I’m sure it would wind up about knights and ONLY knights.  Again… the trekkie thing.  The view from the camera will NEVER EVER be from those who participate in it.  It will be the sensationalized aspects of the festival.

    And frankly a good part of the romance genre is women enjoying an escapist read.  There is nothing wrong with that.  But to think that the whole foundation of the genre was to empower women and write HEAs is silly.  It didn’t start that way.  It may end up that way but it certainly started out as escapist fantasy.  Not to mention the bic flicking.  At least they didn’t go into detail about that.  That would have made me vaguely uncomfortable to watch all those women discussing how some Alpha male makes them cream their panties.

    To say any Con embodies the entirety of any genre is foolish.  BUT it gives viewers who have NO idea what any of it is about a starting point.  If they wish to find out more they will.  Regardless of what this clip shows.

    And no press is bad press!

  11. Melissa says:

    I worked at a hotel in Baton Rouge when the RT convention was held there about ten years ago.  I don’t think anyone prepared us for half naked cover models strolling from hotel to hotel.  It was an interesting week to say the least!

  12. gemiwing says:

    I think what disturbs me about the trailer is it seems more focused on the ten “escapist man hubba hunks”  at the convention and not the thousands of women. That, coupled with the escapism and alfa-male luuurve makes me sit back and go errrr, no I don’t like alfa-males.

    I wonder how this film will affect the RT con in the future, should be interesting.

    Still, I think I’ll watch the film. Even if it is just to punch my husband in the arm everytime he goes Hur Hur.

  13. RfP says:

    I love a *good* documentary.  Often with a novice filmmaker, I find the interest comes from
    (a) an interesting perspective on the subject,
    (b) an avid curiosity, or
    (c) a bizarre subject.

    The teaser shows primarily (c).  We’ll see what else is in it when it’s finished.

  14. Robin says:

    What happened to the trailer?  When I click it says that the clip is no longer available.

    As for the short interview with the filmmakers, it strikes me that there is still an element of “the Romance industry” as represented by RT being an oddity (the comparison to Trekkies and the whole emphasis on people doing “what we don’t understand” is telling, IMO).  That gives me pause, definitely.

    I was also struck by the comment at the beginning of that second clip by the attendee (whoever it was) who said something about how Romance is “how you want your life to be” (massive paraphrase there).  Really?  I thought that was the perception that we’ve been trying to counter.  And the clips of the cover models, one appearing to be kissing a woman and the others on those little horse things . . . well, that reminded me a bit of this year’s controversy, lol.

  15. Robin says:

    Okay, for some reason I was able to access the video at You Tube.  I wonder if the filmmakers really see the “Romance industry” that way—I mean, the emphasis seems to be squarely on sex and fantasy.  That one comment about delivering the fantasy for readers who live only through books was, uhm, interesting.  IMO, if that’s the image those filmmakers now have of the Romance community, and that’s the image film viewers are going to have, we’re back at the bottom of the mountain in terms of overcoming those demeaning stereotypes. 
    .

  16. Rinda says:

    It was my understanding that the film is about the RT convention, not the romance industry.  But, I didn’t get to watch the entire clip—I just live in the same area and an article about the film was in the paper this past weekend.

  17. molly_rose says:

    I am so glad SB Sarah points out that readers are all so different, and that includes the reasons why we read. I read lots o’ lurve stories. I also happen to have an amazingly wonderful and love-filled life that I don’t nead to escape from. Maybe some people do need to escape, and that’s okay, too. But you know what? In the real world, it takes work to get that HEA, hard work. It takes imagination, spirit, and luck as well. Just because I read romance novels does not imply that I have sat back and decided to watch life pass by, only to recieve happiness through a tale about another woman’s good times. Books are books, no matter the genre – it’s our entertainment, not our existence.

  18. molly_rose says:

    oh, and can I just add? What is with that blonde model’s hair *wig*?

  19. Jane says:

    This is not just about RT.  This documentary is about the romance genre.  The genre as a whole but they use the convention to define romance readers.  To the filmmakers, we are oddities, a subculture.

    It would be one thing if the documentary is about just the convention and a look at romance readers that are convention goers, but that isn’t how it is advertised nor how the producers discuss this.

  20. Bonnie says:

    Ugh… that video is T.A.C.K.Y.  That could just about put me off romance forever.  Not to mention sex. 

    Yeesh.

  21. Ehren says:

    not any weirder or silly than an anime convention, comic book convention or sci-fi convention.

  22. “I write erotic.  Some of the stuff I write, I haven’t done.” Giggle giggle.

    It’ve written romantic erotica since before it became the rage. My first novel came out in January 2003 and I’ve written about 40 book and novellas. JC Wilder is around here somewhere (And I know others) who’ve been writing it far longer than I have.

    What has this got to do with the quote above? You don’t know how many times I’ve been asked about my “research” and “experience.” I can still remember the first time someone came up to me and said “Wow, you must have a lot of experience.”

    Uh, yeah. I’ve gotten it on with a guy who happens to be a weretiger.

    I’ve even had people who live the BDSM lifestyle think that I do, too. Hey, that’s a hell of a compliment. But, no. I have a great imagination and some good research skills.

    I’ve been married to the same man for a good, solid 22+ years, since I was 20, and we dated for 2 years before that. What’s wrong with a little fantasy in the mix?

    When I was a kid (NO I did not read erotica) I would read to escape and fall into the worlds the authors created. It was so fabulous. And my dream was to create books where readers could escape dinto a different world that I created, that I could try and give them what is given to me when I read.

    I’m sure J.R. Ward’s fans sure love those hot ALPHA vampires and enjoy that escapism her books bring. I sure do.

    It’s a fantasy. It sure as hell isn’t real. That’s the idea. To escape life’s every day boredom or job stress, or like some of my readers, have told me, to forget their physical pain—just for a while. To enjoy a book that allows them a respite from whatever they might face in life.

    Recently, the mother of my son’s friend told me she would read my books to her mother during her final days and how much they loved that time that helped her mother forget her pain for a while. I sure cried when she told me that. And it put a lot of things in perspective for me.

    If you read about werewolves, demons, vampires, shapeshifters, and whatever, you sure aren’t reading about real life. And who wants to read real life? Well, some people do. But a lot of romance readers, and I think especially paranormal readers, want to escape and enjoy a fantasy for a while. Along with that HEA. It feels good.

  23. oh, and can I just add? What is with that blonde model’s hair *wig*?

    That’s CJ’s real hair—it hangs all the way to his ass. He’s a really neat guy.

  24. Robin says:

    It was my understanding that the film is about the RT convention, not the romance industry.

    In the second clip, the filmmakers indicate that the documentary “covers the whole subculture of Romance:  the readers, the authors, and especially the cover models.”  They apparently interviewed authors, cover models, and readers for a year.  The voice over characterizes the film as about “the Romance industry,” and I get the impression from the interview that the convention is really being pushed as characteristic of the “industry” and the “genre.” 

    Frankly, I’m surprised there’s such a sanguine response here, especially given how, uhm, explosive other instances of Romance stereotyping have become in discussion (things that IMO were much less insulting).  These two clips represent the genre and its community as something from WE TV’s “The Secret Lives of Women.”  One of the filmmakers even talked about how the people at the convention are engaged in things “we don’t understand” but turn out to be basically “normal people.”  Well isn’t that good to know. 

    A trailer is supposed to peak interest in an upcoming film, and what does that trailer consist of?  Images and comments focused on sex, on everything, IMO, people complained about this year as increasingly definitive of RT.  That trailer is one of the most mortifying things related to Romance I’ve seen in a long, long time.

    That’s CJ’s real hair—it hangs all the way to his ass. He’s a really neat guy.

    He actually came off as one of the tamer interviewees.

  25. Anya Bast says:

    I’ve been asked more times than I can count if I “do” what I write about. Most erotic romance authors field that question from interviewers on a regular basis.

  26. Beth says:

    Dreadful.

    Nothing about the craft, the genre, the deeper human values to which this type of story speaks. I get that romance also functions as fun sexy escapism—perhaps for all of us at least some of the time—but to focus so intently on average looking middle aged women ogling those oily looking men makes “Trekkies” look like “Hearts and Minds”.

  27. but to focus so intently on average looking middle aged women ogling those oily looking men

    I think that’s a fairly offensive statement to our readers. Very offensive.

  28. Leslie H says:

    I suspect it just takes one tiny step to go from documentary to Mockumentary. I Don’t think Ms Sala would go there, but it is not always in our control. 

    I’ve been to RT and I go regularly to SF cons, so I am a connoiseur of the crazies.  Since I am a gaming geek, that makes me one too! On the other hand, Square Dance conventions wear funny costumes and get crazy together, so I suppose it’s just a flavor thing.

    Secutiry word “united28” Yep I guess we are!

  29. DS says:

    I’m not sanguine.  I’m appalled.  Of course I intend to see it if I get a chance—I think it’s going to have that train wreck quality.  I have a friend who despises romance novels.  If the clip is anything like the whole then it will confirm all her prejudices.

  30. Robin says:

    I have a friend who despises romance novels.  If the clip is anything like the whole then it will confirm all her prejudices.

    Exactly.  I wonder how those filmed will feel about the way they have been portrayed.  The filmmakers seem confident that they will have fans galore among Romance readers, but I wonder if that’s true.  I know RT can look kind of crazy to the insiders—to those who know and love what it’s supposed to celebrate.  So to outsiders who already see Romance readers as some sort of cultural oddity (based on their own description), I don’t think it would take much to make the whole thing (and by extension the entire Romance industry/community/genre) look like a spectacle of sex and sweat and women gone wild.

  31. quichepup says:

    Here’s a link to an article in the local rag. Includes a link to a video clip too. http://newsok.com/norman-couple-make-film-about-romance-novels/article/3263896/?tm=1214796142

    Both of the filmmakers admit they knew very little going into the project and are amateurs.

  32. SB Sarah says:

    Frankly, I’m surprised there’s such a sanguine response here, especially given how, uhm, explosive other instances of Romance stereotyping have become in discussion (things that IMO were much less insulting).

    I’m not entirely sanguine, but I haven’t set things on fire yet, mostly because from what I can tell, the filmmakers are trying to raise the money needed to finish the film, and because it hasn’t premiered yet.

    Also, the people at RT are real, and for some of them, they love the experience of the convention and the gloss that allows them to celebrate their deep fantastical love of romance. The documentary subjects haven’t said anything that isn’t true. But if the documentary itself paints all fans of romance with the same brush, and says we’re all like that (and I admit it looks like that may be the direction) then gloves are off. They aren’t done with the film, so I’m withholding the ire for now.

    It also occurs to me that the more business-oriented side of the romance genre, and the more erudite and critical readership that devours it, is dead field boring.

    I don’t think it would take much to make the whole thing (and by extension the entire Romance industry/community/genre) look like a spectacle of sex and sweat and women gone wild.

    Agreed. It’s easy for me to look at the festivities and fanbase of RT and say, “I’m not that romance fan. I’m a different kind of romance fan,” and expect that people would know better and know the difference. And fool that I am, I have to remind myself that, time and again, no matter what the subject, the over-the-top crazy faction often represents the whole.

  33. Jane says:

    Here’s where I disagree with you, Sarah.  I have watched Trekkies twice. It’s hilarious, but it is also careful to note that the subject of the MOCKumentary is indeed a sub culture.  I don’t identify everyone who is a Star Trek fan with the dentist who makes his entire family dress up in the star trek uniforms or who has spent thousands of dollars renovating his house so that his home looks like the starship enterprise.  I didn’t find that Trekkies was indicative of the overall viewership or even fanbase of Star Trek and neither was that the aim of the film.

    In the explicit statements of the creators of this MOCKumentary is that the entirety of the romance readership is a subculture, a group that should be looked upon with fascination tinged with two parts embarrassment and one part horror.  It would be one thing if this was solely a look at RT con-goers and those that truly do find their lives in a book, but to present it as a representation of the genre as a whole sets us back in the respectability argument about 20 years.

    I am terribly disappointed at the authors who participated in this debacle.  I hope that I never hear any respectability complaints from those who agreed to be in this documentary.  I don’t know which author it is that said that readers live in their books and this con brings their fantasies to life but that is such a disservice to her readers.

    We won’t get past the idea that romance readers are nothing more than giggling girls who have nothing better to do with their lives than ogle and paw man titty in hopes of bringing some torrid romance novel to life, we will never be thought of as anything less than the lowest common denominator.

  34. SB Sarah says:

    I hope that I never hear any respectability complaints from those who agreed to be in this documentary.  I don’t know which author it is that said that readers live in their books and this con brings their fantasies to life but that is such a disservice to her readers.

    We won’t get past the idea that romance readers are nothing more than giggling girls who have nothing better to do with their lives than ogle and paw man titty in hopes of bringing some torrid romance novel to life, we will never be thought of as anything less than the lowest common denominator.

    But the fact is, much as we may shudder at witnessing it, there are romance readers who do live in their books, for whom romance is a fantasy world they prefer to their own lives. There are romance readers who love RT because it brings that fantasy world to life for them, who view the whole convention through the fuzzy chiffon-covered lenses they wear. There are romance readers who are giggling girls who have a great deal of pawing fun while ogling the man titty. It’s really sad and it’s certainly not my cup of tea-with-Bailey’s, but they’re there. They exist. They buy romance. They read the same books we do. They’re romance readers just like we are.

    You and I and everyone else between us know better and know that there are other romance fans who are more interested in intelligent and critical debate, who wouldn’t dare grope a man or do any of the other things that go on at RT, but RT has existed longer as a unifying body than we have with our blogs and discussions. So that’s the established representative body – for the time being. I do think that it’ll change. At least, I damn well hope so.

    But authors are smart to know that there’s more than one audience, and RT serves one, while the Literacy Signing at RWA, reader conventions, and regional RWA chapter conferences serve others.

    It’s really fucking irritating every time someone says to me, “Oh, you read those books,” with the implication embedded that I am one of those readers, but after I left RT in Pittsburgh I more fully understood where that giggling/groping reputation comes from. That said, I think that by showing up, you and I and the folks who come by our sites prove that there is a growing, happy community of romance readers who aim for discourse and not debauchery.

  35. Jane says:

    I’m not saying that the readers depicted in the video don’t exist or that the video distorts, at all, what goes on at the RT Con.  What I am saying is that the video is presented as being representative of the entirety of the genre.

    And I find it offensive that an author assumes that all of the readers of romance live in their books and want to bring their fantasies to life.  I don’t believe that about romance readers as a whole and I don’t actually believe that about all the RT convention goers.

    It would be one thing if the video and the documentary focused on just the Con and the strange goings on at the Con (honestly I found the guy who bit his finger and eventually won the contest to be corny rather than hot) and presented the Con as a sub culture, but that is not the focus, according to the statements of the creators.

    I was thinking about the video last night and wondered what our collective reaction would be to it if it was a documentary on science fiction readers and you played a gender role reversal so that it included a number of scantily clad women being groped and kissed by male con-goers and male con-goers lurking around barriers taking furtive pictures of the models etc. etc.

  36. SB Sarah says:

    What I am saying is that the video is presented as being representative of the entirety of the genre.

    And I find it offensive that an author assumes that all of the readers of romance live in their books and want to bring their fantasies to life.  I don’t believe that about romance readers as a whole and I don’t actually believe that about all the RT convention goers.

    I agree with you there – the idea that RT represents all of us is really irritating, and the documentary does seem, based on the trailer, to be representing “Romance” on the whole by virtue of showcasing RT. RT is no more representative of all romance readers than Opus Dei is representative of all Catholics. It’s probably a mistake (to make a large and drafty understatement) to have two outsiders who haven’t read a romance novel themselves crafting a documentary on “romance” by attending RT and nothing else.  I can hold out some slim hope that the filmmakers do widen the scope of their documentary, or tighten the focus so that its on RT and not “romance” as represented by RT, but I’m not holding my breath with that hope.

    But I don’t think it’s offensive that an author presume that a reader of romances might live in her books and want to bring her fantasy to life. I think some readers do. I don’t think it’s true of every reader, and certainly not of every RT attendee, but there’s a somewhat large, I think, group of people who see the convention as a suspension of their reality, and a place to play roles, much like other folks do in different subgenres, subcultures, and conventions.

    If you look solely at the gender role reversals of having women groping men, you’ll need a month off just to digest it.

  37. karmelrio says:

    That trailer is one of the most mortifying things related to Romance I’ve seen in a long, long time.

    Agreed, agreed, agreed.  I was cringing watching this, especially the buffed/coiffed cover models.  Why are we willing to objectify men at these events?  Count me out. 

    The documentarian and/or the people interviewed can’t and don’t speak for all of us.  I wish they wouldn’t try.

  38. Gennita Low says:

    I thought each section of the documentary was done quite well as a trailer.  The first part has readers just talking about romance and what it is (I think many people forgot that by the time they got to the male models).  It started with “Romance is a story.”  The interviewees mentioned the positive ending; a man talked about restoring order to chaos; a male model explained it was written from the perspective of women. 

    The second section moved to “Romance as Fantasy,” so I’m not surprised they brought up the fantasy of the Alpha Male and what that implied.  Each interviewee had her own opinion, since the subject matter was about happy endings with alpha males I suspect that’s why their answers sounded as if all readers read romance for fantasy and escape.

    The third and fourth parts, “Romance is a Convention” and “Romance is A Competition” speak for themselves.  Those who never liked that side of the romance business won’t like this part.  Those who enjoy RT for what it is won’t see it too seriously.

    I would like to see the entire documentary before saying definitely whether the filmmakers set out to mock romance.  A business like romance should have all sides to enjoy—the writing and reading (first parts) and the good fun about romance/alpha males/fantasies (last parts).  The other conventions had great fun of their own, bringing in TV stars for fan screamage, as well as their costumes.  I don’t think many of the SF authors wring their hands as much as we do.  I feel that if I can sit through a workshop, filled with rowdy, whooping women, called HOW TO SEX UP YOUR EROTICA, I can damn well sit through Mr. Romance 200X and grin at mantitty.  All in fun.  With a slice of serious (i.e. talking about writing erotica and $$$ for the winning model and future work).

  39. Robin says:

    I’m not entirely sanguine, but I haven’t set things on fire yet, mostly because from what I can tell, the filmmakers are trying to raise the money needed to finish the film, and because it hasn’t premiered yet.

    That trailer is offensive enough to set me off, especially if it is supposed to be advertising to raise capital. 

    People talk about Trekkies and about SF cons, but the thing is, SF already has a level of mainstream respect that Romance doesn’t.  So even the subculture aspect of the Trekkies, for example, is presented within a context of respectability that makes even the more extreme costuming seem quaint rather than degrading, IMO. 

    I’m not complaining because I don’t want to be associated with RT and its goings on (although IMO some of the stuff described, especially at this year’s convention, does not, IMO, represent the genre very well).  What bothered me about that trailer—REALLY BOTHERED ME—as well as the interview, is the particular things that were highlighted and the spin those things telegraph loud and clear.  As attendees have pointed out many times, RT has serious aspects as well as salacious ones, but what was clipped and promoted in that trailer?  RT might make that extremist spin a bit easier, because of the party atmosphere and the casual acceptance attendees have for those more indulgent aspects, but that’s not RT’s fault.  Nor, IMO, does someone who covers the convention have to walk away with a digital diary like the one in that trailer.  Whatever the final film looks like, what is being advertised is one ridiculous stereotype after another about a genre that already has to fight those very stereotypes tooth and nail.  And if the filmmakers think those are the things that will make people interested in their film, then IMO we’re right back to the whole problem with Romance as a genre that continues to be represented as outside the margins of normalcy.

    Now, are there Romance readers who live through the books?  Sure.  Just like there are SF/F readers who live through the books, scientists who live through their work, academics who live in their work, whatever.  But all of those other things have an element of seriousness to them that makes the vicarious-enjoyment subculture merely that.  People already think that Romance readers are fantasy junkies, incapable of distinguishing fantasy from reality, and that trailer (and the interview) just continues to normalize that perception, IMO.

  40. Nicolette Rivers says:

    We don’t know how this was presented to the writers/participants so I’m not sure it’s fair to say, “I hope these women don’t ever complain about wanting respectability.”

    Gennita does a great job at explaining the possible rationale behind the trailer, but it still could have been more compelling and honest. Every or most opinions in the trailer should have had a counterpoint to show that romance novels have a place in the lives of women of all walks of life and so there can be no simple definition.

    I, in my imaginary life as a documentary filmmaker, would have sat down some very different writers and had those differences be apparent while showing a shared respect.

    Then at the end:

    Okay? What IS Romance? Decide for Yourself.

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